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So um... I got a girlfriend recently, and while I've known about my being lesbian for quite awhile, until I got a gf I never really thought about how lesbian sex works. S-so um... could you maybe send me a link to places that I could learn about it? Thanks a bunch! Anonymous

Okay, I’ll be honest: there is a chronic lack of education and help out there for lesbians. Stuff that’s actually any good, it’s painfully crude and doesn’t make me want to wash my hands- although, I blame my OCD for that.

Here is one that is geared towards men and it rather crude, however, it covers the basics pretty well… slow and simple enough for a man to follow… you should pick up pretty quickly :)

Also, please remember that talking to your girlfriend about this might be a really good idea. She can help you, and she’ll understand… we ALL have to learn these things, it’s not (sadly) and inborn skill.

So, here is your link:

http://www.viceland.com/nl/v1n1b/htdocs/eating_pussy.php

I do apologise in advance, because there are some parts that make me want to bash my head in, BUT, several of my friends swear by this…

Is your theme free? Anonymous

Yes, it’s the “Button theme”.

I hope you don't mind my asking, but why don't you go to lessons? Your blog is amazing by the way, all the pictures are so relatable :) Anonymous

I’ve been out of any formal lessons since October last year due to medical issues that turned into personal issues.

I attempted suicide last year and things were extremely rough. Then with everything piling I had a bit of a breakdown and by the time a IEP was put in place I could barely leave the house.

But things are getting better, I feel a lot better now, but not quite ready for lessons yet! But I get my results from my exams in August and then I get to leave :)

So… are any of you guys going to be going to world pride?
You haven't been on in soooo long. D: Anonymous

I know! I’m sorry. I’ve been so busy, I have a ridiculous amount of work to do and I’m not in any lessons, and I even with the 1:1 I’m behind.
I really should be doing work now, but I’m on here and writing up my training schedule for the next month. It’s this or Math Coursework, and Math loses every time. 

Eugh! I’m motivated to kill myself with running, but not to read a History textbook… I need better priorities :)

I think people are gay for attention. Anonymous

Look, mate, I’ll level with you here.

If I wanted attention, I’d walk down the High Street in my nicest lingerie.

I guarantee I’d get a far better reaction than I do when I tell people I’m gay. 

I totally get the wanting to be straight sometimes thing. There are mornings where I wake up and wonder why I can't be. Not because I think there's anything wrong with me, just because being straight would be so much easier. I have to tell every new person I meet that we are lesbians. Straight girls don't have to do that. It's just assumed. People discriminate against us just because we like girls. The whole thing is fucking stupid and I wish we lived in a world where sexuality didn't matter. ch4sing-love-deactivated2012050

I also wish we lived in a place where sexuality isn’t so confining. I like girls, but what if I meet a guy and he’s the one? What am I then? Have I been confused or is it just chance?

People fall in love with people. I say it over and over again, we fall for people, not what they have in their underwear. 

I don’t see why that’s so hard to understand. 

Why would you want to be straight though? Anonymous

When I walk out the door, no-one knows I’m gay. They all assume I like men. Men flirt with me, they hit on me and ask for my number. The girls who are gay don’t know that I am too.
I have to out myself to people to explain parts of my life.
I’m not entitled to the same things as straight people.
I’m living in a society where people KILL gay people… for being gay. 

I am treated differently because of something I cannot control.

I wish I was normal.
That’s why I wish I was straight.  

I don't want to sound rude, but, how do you know you're not bi-sexual? Anonymous

I don’t. None of us do. We will never meet every single person in the entire world, so we have no idea if there is that one person who could “turn us”. However, as of yet, I’ve never met a guy who makes me weak at the knees with a single glance like a girl can.

So, until I do meet a guy who can… I technically, have to be gay… because, well, I DO like girls.

Do you ever wish you were straight? Anonymous

Yes, quite often actually. I find it sad that I have to fight to defend something that I don’t want or have any control over. 

But hey, I have bi-sexual moments, got to be some consolation. 

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